My identity as a wife and puppy mother, not as a disabled person

Being a wife and dog mum brings a unique blend of love, responsibility, and joy into everyday life. It’s a role that encompasses nurturing two different kinds of companionships, each fulfilling in its own way.

Firstly, being a wife means navigating the intricacies of partnership. It involves sharing your life with someone, making decisions together, and supporting each other through life’s ups and downs. It’s about building a home and creating a safe haven where both partners can grow individually and together. From daily routines to major milestones, being a wife means being a constant source of support and love for your spouse.

On the other hand, being a dog mum adds another layer of warmth and affection to the household. Dogs bring unconditional love, loyalty, and companionship. They teach patience, responsibility, and the joy of simple pleasures like walks in the park or cuddling on the couch. As a dog mum, you become attuned to their needs, whether it’s ensuring they get enough exercise, providing a balanced diet, or simply showering them with affection.

Balancing these roles requires patience and flexibility. It means juggling schedules, sometimes sacrificing personal time, and learning to find harmony in the chaos of daily life. Yet, it’s immensely rewarding. The love you receive from your spouse and your furry friend is unparalleled. It’s in the wag of a tail, the comfort of a hug, or the shared laughter over silly antics.

There are challenges too. From disagreements with your spouse to the occasional messes and vet visits with your dog, each challenge strengthens your bonds and teaches valuable lessons in patience and understanding.

Ultimately, being a wife and dog mum is about embracing the joy of companionship in its many forms. It’s about creating a loving environment where everyone feels cherished and cared for. It’s a role that evolves over time, growing deeper and richer with each passing day. And through it all, the love you give and receive continues to be the foundation of a happy and fulfilling life together.